Making The First Move
As many Love Stories readers would know, the jury is out on a conclusive opinion in the light of sexual equality. I happen to think that the best approach is for you to use your head to bring about a meeting on neutral ground, a move which minimises risks of rebuff.
In the lucky chance of mutual friends existing, perhaps they could find a means of bringing you two together without the strategy seeming too obviously matchmaking.
A third party could suggest drinks or a meal out or an outing to which both of you are invited along with others. On the other hand if you wish to ring him yourself I suggest you resist the temptation to propose a solo date in favour of one in the company of friends.
I’m not forgetting that the modern women has every right to assert her preferences and take the initiative. But if you play like one of the boys you must be prepared to take what comes!
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I think Indian women today have every right to approach men and make it known that they fancy them – but I am not sure if the men are ready for us yet…
well, you are correct swati. i dont think we indian men are really ready for it. most of us are still conservative and moreover we are possesive (level much higher). but you can still find a handfull of guys who are up for it. as a young man who has worked with a psychiatrist i have learned that men who are not too active in greeting women and who are like touch and go are the safe and best set for this modern out look of women.
I partly agree with swati. As a matter of fact indian men are actually HESITANT to approach a decent woman, and this needs to b corrected. Needless to say that men are hesitant because of the fear of response the expect from women. Pl chek this.
Yes Swati is correct, but sitll men are not prepaired that kind to swallo this.
Every human has right to select his/her choice and it depends. Still men are not prepared to this kind but may fall in trap when a girl smile.
It depends on the women how confident she is about asserting herself and how confident she is about the man. If she is confident enough to trust a man to such an extent for herself she should take the move, otherwise caution is required because the chances are a lot that she might find herself insecure and afraid of having made a mistake which might cost her confidence and self image in the long run. Ofcourse nobody can snatch the right from her but she is risking herself for somebody else and should be cautious though not afraid. Women have to be fearless and decisive not impulsive.