There is nothing more off-putting to innumerable females than the faintest suspicion that they are overdressed for an occasion. Much has to do with a dislike of being seen to try too hard or of calling attention to oneself.

Then bolted on to all of this is the sartorial mood in favour of so-called ‘downdressing’, Love Stories opinion is that this has given the stamp of fashionableness to a predilection that is probably bred in the bone.

Exceptions to the rule of quiet attire do exist, nevertheless. It is always in order for the hostess herself to pay the gathering the compliment of putting on her best, so try and find out what she is wearing before the party. Also, find out from other party guests if word has been passed around to “dress up”.

Some say there are signs of a less austere approach to women’s dress being fast on its way.

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